Through life experience and some conversations I
have made in the last couple of years,with women from different ages (mostly
between 35and50),status and fields of work for instance,I have garthered and gained
some interesting viewpoints about male behaviors that women think annoy them
and that men should avoid if possible. Talking about this topic doesn’t mean
that I hate or antagonize men nor was I trying to seduce those women to do so.I
was not doing a research about it either. Not at all and don’t get me
wrong,dear! But through my work, I see and talk with women a lot. And when
women meet, you know! We will talk about women things,about cloths,beauty as
well as personal life.
- Complain:
It’s pretty much pesky if you live with someone
who complains about everything for no reason. Some men complain every single
day, some even worse, they complains everytime they see you. Whether it’s
because of unhappiness of their lives or the bitter background of their
childhood or being pessimistic with everything around.It’s unhealthy at all, not
only for themselves but also for the ones who share their lives with.Please try
to find ways to eliminate this creepy habit.If you can’t cope with it by
yourself,seek for professional help.You will get over it.
- Snore:
This is one of the most annoying habits that can
cause disturbances in relationship.Snoring can effect the living pattern of
individualist.It can interrupt the sleep of both the snorer and the bed
partner.You will face sleepless and stress problem will be arised.Don’t keep
your partner awake,well, in fact both of you need good rest. Do something about
it, there are treatments to stop it.
- Swear or say cursing and bad words:
Some men are like “having cursed disease”,
whatever goes wrong,even small things, they will utter “fuck,you know!”, “damn
it”,”shit, “go to hell”,”fuck the duck”, “asshole” ,”bitch”, “bullshit”, “#@*Wp*&**#” bla bla bla and
etc. I’m sorry that I have to show some examples of those unpleasant and not
even unqualified expessions. I myself feel ashamed to speak out one of these
offensive languages and I’d rather be deaf than to hear any of them at all.
Unfortunately you can find these so-called words in every language. But if you
guys keep saying them too often,please
try to reduce the frequency and if possible controle your mind not to emit
those inappropriate phrases in front of women.They find them irksome!
- Act bossy:
Bossy person is considered to be “difficult
people”type. Some guys love to do so and it becomes their habit.They
dictate,dominate and want others to do whatever they want them to do.They
believe to be smarter than others,in our case,than their women.They control and
can drive women crazy. Well,guys I’m telling you this.. most women don’t like
to have bossy man around.It’s frustrating and doesn’t boost satisfaction to women at
all.
- Be
rude and harsh
When you are impolite by pointing your finger
on someone’s face and shout out loud with aggressive manner,you are showing
your rudeness.That’s disgusting.The way you show the lack of respect to others
and that you ruin others positive feelings or good mood. A harsh word stirs up
anger.This is a suffering life pattern, women dislike and are ready to walk
away.
- Have hot temper:
There are many reasons that can make people
angry.And there are many ways to express your anger healthily.We’re human,we
can be angry but please not too quick! Hot-tempered,short-tempered,
quick-tempered or easily-angered can be destructive.These people are looking
for a fight,when they are angry they will do foolish things and act
foolishly.Their mind is not engaged so it’s almost impossible to reason with
them.Women don’t make friendship with hot-tempered man.It’s too dangerous to be
with!
- Lack of empathy:
You may probably ask if empathy an habit ? right
I can tell you it’s an habit that you can cultivate to improve the quality of
your own life. Empathy is ability to understand others’feelings and perspectives,
and that you can use this understanding to guide your action.Remember that we
all can develope and nurture the growth of empathy throughout our life.When you
lack of empathy, you hardly care for others, you won’t listen and you won’t
understand.You then won’t communicate effectively.The consequence will only
worsen the relationship.So do something about it.
- Don’t help with household jobs:
Like the old proverb says “Man may work from sun
to sun but a woman’s work is never done” and it’s true, a woman work is never
done. Some guys have the wrong ideas that household work belongs to women only.
When back from the office,men relax laying on the couch watching tv and after
meal never help with cleaning or other things in house.This is
unjustified,women need household help.And they need you,guys , to assist them.Remember
that working together will be more enjoyable,also in the kitchen.
To sum up, these are just some examples of irritating habits
which can annoy women tremendously.Well, al least you guys know that now.
Till next time,
Pari
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