Irritating behaviors men should avoid !

Through life experience and some conversations I have made in the last couple of years,with women from different ages (mostly between 35and50),status and fields of work for instance,I have garthered and gained some interesting viewpoints about male behaviors that women think annoy them and that men should avoid if possible. Talking about this topic doesn’t mean that I hate or antagonize men nor was I trying to seduce those women to do so.I was not doing a research about it either. Not at all and don’t get me wrong,dear! But through my work, I see and talk with women a lot. And when women meet, you know! We will talk about women things,about cloths,beauty as well as personal life.

I’m here not as an expert or relationship therapist,but someone who will pass on useful information and message to the guys.To be fair to them,I think they should be warned and informed about this so that they will look at themselves and  be aware of what might bother their ladies.This can perhaps prevent the quarrels,the nuisance or in some severe case, the break up.So let’s find out what are those irritating behaviors women think men should avoid.

1. Complain:

It’s pretty much pesky if you live with someone who complains about everything for no reason. Some men complain every single day, some even worse, they complains everytime they see you. Whether it’s because of unhappiness of their lives or the bitter background of their childhood or being pessimistic with everything around.It’s unhealthy at all, not only for themselves but also for the ones who share their lives with.Please try to find ways to eliminate this creepy habit.If you can’t cope with it by yourself,seek for professional help.You will get over it.

2. Snore:

This is one of the most annoying habits that can cause disturbances in relationship.Snoring can effect the living pattern of individualist.It can interrupt the sleep of both the snorer and the bed partner.You will face sleepless and stress problem will be arised.Don’t keep your partner awake,well, in fact both of you need good rest. Do something about it, there are treatments to stop it.

3. Swear or say cursing and bad words:

Some men are like “having cursed disease”, whatever goes wrong,even small things, they will utter “fuck,you know!”, “damn it”,”shit, “go to hell”,”fuck the duck”, “asshole” ,”bitch”,  “bullshit”, “#@*Wp*&**#” bla bla bla and etc. I’m sorry that I have to show some examples of those unpleasant and not even unqualified expessions. I myself feel ashamed to speak out one of these offensive languages and I’d rather be deaf than to hear any of them at all. Unfortunately you can find these so-called words in every language. But if you guys keep saying them too often,please try to reduce the frequency and if possible controle your mind not to emit those inappropriate phrases in front of women.They find them irksome!

4. Act bossy:

Bossy person is considered to be “difficult people”type. Some guys love to do so and it becomes their habit.They dictate,dominate and want others to do whatever they want them to do.They believe to be smarter than others,in our case,than their women.They control and can drive women crazy. Well,guys I’m telling you this.. most women don’t like to have bossy man around.It’s frustrating and doesn’t boost satisfaction to women at all.

5. Be rude and harsh

When you are impolite by pointing your finger on someone’s face and shout out loud with aggressive manner,you are showing your rudeness.That’s disgusting.The way you show the lack of respect to others and that you ruin others positive feelings or good mood. A harsh word stirs up anger.This is a suffering life pattern, women dislike and are ready to walk away.  

6. Have hot temper:

There are many reasons that can make people angry.And there are many ways to express your anger healthily.We’re human,we can be angry but please not too quick! Hot-tempered,short-tempered, quick-tempered or easily-angered can be destructive.These people are looking for a fight,when they are angry they will do foolish things and act foolishly.Their mind is not engaged so it’s almost impossible to reason with them.Women don’t make friendship with hot-tempered man.It’s too dangerous to be with!

7. Lack of empathy:

You may probably ask if empathy an habit ? right I can tell you it’s an habit that you can cultivate to improve the quality of your own life. Empathy is ability to understand others’feelings and perspectives, and that you can use this understanding to guide your action.Remember that we all can develope and nurture the growth of empathy throughout our life.When you lack of empathy, you hardly care for others, you won’t listen and you won’t understand.You then won’t communicate effectively.The consequence will only worsen the relationship.So do something about it.

8. Don’t help with household jobs:

Like the old proverb says “Man may work from sun to sun but a woman’s work is never done” and it’s true, a woman work is never done. Some guys have the wrong ideas that household work belongs to women only. When back from the office,men relax laying on the couch watching tv and after meal never help with cleaning or other things in house.This is unjustified,women need household help.And they need you,guys , to assist them.Remember that working together will be more enjoyable,also in the kitchen.

To sum up, these are just some examples of irritating habits which can annoy women tremendously.Well, al least you guys know that now.

Till next time,

Pari

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Quality Sunday !

Sunday 13-10-13

It’s Sunday,and I had no other plan else rather than staying home and later in the afternoon going out eating with my son in Aachen. My daughter is having Automn vacation and left for diving in Spain with her dad few days ago.And they will be back next week.

I was late to bed last night and so up late, about 10 a.m while it was windy outside with some drizzle in somber sphere.It must have been cold out there,like yesterday when I was with a friend  at the market in Eygelshoven for some fish and vegetables.I’m glad it’s Sunday,there is no liability for outdoor activities, to force me to drees up in a hurry to drive away to somewhere.It’s warm and cozy inside as always.That’s why I did not mind how the weather outside was like.As today I prefered to stay home anyway before outgoing with my boy in the afternoon.

Out of the window in the kitchen during my nearly-noon breakfast this morning,I saw some leaves falling down from the trees.It’s a bit quiet today.I didn’t hear any birds singing from our backyard at all. They were probably cuddling in  their warm and gentle nests, not only to take most adventage of restful Sunday but also (I think) to adjust themself to get used to these cold days,like we,human-being do.

Sometimes I have an idea that nature has its tricky way to lock some people as well as some animals indoor,when it comes to a point of seasonal changing process.The weather will be lightly unpleasant with chilling wind or some rain that soaks the surroundings wet and muddy at some places.So we will hate to go out and will spend most of our time doing some lovely things in the house instead. Until the process is done,the sun will shine and nature will allure us to get out of the shelter again,with delightful mood.Then we will notice some changes. The leaves have been changing the colors,some are on, while others are off the limps and lying on the ground.Some have become red or brown ,others have turned into orange or yellow.And many have got mixed. But all in all, the combination of those different colors makes scenery fastinating! I love the color of Automn. Gorgeous !

Though there’s less light, much of cool wind today, I made a terrific plan for an appetizing afternoon with my son. We hardly sit down and talk lately. He has been spending most of his time with his friends,study and part-time job. I would really love to communicate with him as much as I do with my daughter.I took him out for diner in Aachen this afternoon. Food was good, variety of all kinds were offered,we both enjoyed our choices. But better than that, spending quality time together was even more joyful and loveable.It’s precious moment of all.This is my quality Sunday.

As the season has already been changing for a while.The colorful landscape along the way to the restaurant had attracted our attention pretty well. So when possible,we stopped along the way and made some pictures of the trees and the leaves.We both had wonderful time.

Till next time,

Pari

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How to impress a woman ?

Each adult female human or whom one beautiful word defined meaningfully as “woman” in this world, believe me, needs love,warmth,affection,attention,present and so forth. But in the globalized era of todays,where international intergration arising,worldviews, ideas and aspects of culture have been interchanged. Do men know how to treat women the way it should be? Do men care to impress women at all ? Well,optimestically,I assume that lots of men would love to but probably don’t know how and herhaps,due to besiness engagement, don’t even have time to figure it out how to start or/and to keep it last.Well,let me help you out,guys. Here are some suggestions of how you can impress a woman.

1.Radiate yourself with a gentle and friendly smile

Probably you  are not someone who smiles that easily.But just try, make it simple,curve your lips.Make yourself comfortable and interesting. You can creat a great first impression at the first meet.Or if you’re already in relationship,you’ll make your partner feel comfortable and always desire to have you around.

2.Show her affection

Little things are significant ingredients in every woman’s life that can make a woman truly appreciate.Those merciful embrace, warm hug or caring touch are some examples of  effortless ways to show her you care.Your affection will not only signify a sense of warmth but also found a strong base of love as well as streghten the ties between both of you.

3.Give her present

This is a thoughtful way to show her that you have always been thinking of her .It can be a lillte thing like giftcard  from parfume shop. Women love parfum and cosmetics.She will be delighted to try new eau de parfum or a new color of lipstic once in a while.It can be a bunch of flowers or just one rose which symbolizes your thoughtfulness or your love for her.

An invitation to a movie or a surprise diner at her favorite restaurant is also to recommend.Or else to a theatre or a concert.Try to find out what she likes or loves to do.So you can please her at any time,you don’t have to wait for any special occasion to come.  

4.Pay her attention

If you are spending time with a woman outdoor or somewhere indoor, do not devide your attention to anything else around.Ignore any incoming phonecalls nor any messages.Leave your work or business at the office.Time out with her,she deserves all attention from you and you will for sure recieve her attention back in return.  

5.Show her respect

Treat her well with respect and equality.Don’t make her feel inferior.When talking about something,ask her for some opinion or some advices. You may be boss at your office,but with her,you will be someone she can talk to.Is she  someone you’ll share your life with ,then she deserves respect most.

6 Make conversation

If you meet an attractive woman for the first time and would like to get to know her more.It’s okay to start conversation with simple greet “Hi” and question“how are you?” It may sound too simple but it’s better to say something than nothing at all.After breaking ice,the conversation will flow (please make it flow).Even if it’s not the first meet,you must keep talking,chitchating or telling her something.When she’s not around,leave a note or send her short message via mobile phone.That can give an immense rejoice to both of you.

7.Give her compliment

Every woman on earth loves compliment.When you like or love someone, there must be something that captures you. Something unique or special that you like or love about her. Tell her about  that.Whether it’s about her physical appearance, her inner or her talented skill.Is it her open and charming smile, her complexion,her tanned skin, or her long brown hair that you adore.Is it her dress,her voice,her sympathy,her cooking skill,the way she walks or anything that you can think of. Mentioning about this will boost her joyfulness and make her proud as well. She, on the other hand, will reveal to you about your good personalities,your charms as well as your best qualities.All of these may not happen at the same time.But you both will carry them on and when you two are bringing positive attitudes to each other.Hapiness joints.Both of you are well-off.

8.Dress appropriately

You can wear a t-shirt with shorts or a pair of jeans.Or you may be elegant in a suit or tuxedo. It depends on where or when you are going to, which occasion ? Out to a gala or just to stroll along the beach.Just dress appropriatly according to the occasion.

9.Mind your manner

Whether at home or in public, keep cultivating good manners and if possible learn some etiquettes. Some proper manners that should be awared and should absolutely not let see to your woman (neither in public) are for example,picking your nose, sniveling on diner table,spitting on street.

Good manners can help you have better relationship with poeple you encounter and definitely with a woman you get in touch with.Make sure you are not making her feel ashamed to be with.

There are no fixed rules about how to impress a woman. But all mentioned  above are some excellent guidlines that you may keep in mind. I wish you guys the best of luck.:)

Pari :D
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My twitter UFO

I have noticed already many months ago on my twitter that there are several followers (whom I also follow back and so in fact we follow each other) have been coming in and going out ,other words...one day appear, and the next day vanish.I have no idea how they make it. Technically,I’m probably a so-called “low-tech” twitter,I must confess.I know there will be possibitilties to be invisible or to hide self from the "followings" and "followers".So when they come I’ll see the numbers of “followings”and “followers” increased.On the other hand,when they disappear,the numbers lessen. Well, I don’t mind when they’ll come or go. I’m just wondering why they are doing so. And thus I’m expressing my feeling as follows:

little mouses are playing “seek and hide”

I see you come,some seconds you go

 keep me in doubt ,may I ask you why...

are you doing so ? Just like twitter UFO

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A Little Present maintains friendship

I had a very lovely,thoughtful and warm visit today from a very good friend who lives in Hoofddorp.Well, if I mention about Hoofddorp,you’ll probably have no idea where on earth this place is.To make you feel more comfortable and familiar with the place,I shall say Hoofddorp is a place close to Amsterdam,and so... not far from Schipol Airport.I think now you will have a clearer idea where about it locates.Anyway,that’s not the main point I’m going to talk about now.What I’m telling you is actually my friend came from more than 200 kilometers,to be precise, a return trip will be more than 400km  to see me,to spend a precious afternoon time with me, I must say,I appreciate her visit and I consider it a little present that maintains our friendship.

Tully in the garden,Castle Terworm,Heerlen 

It was Thurseday evening when I got a merry phone call from Tully who asked if I had already plan for upcoming weekend. In fact,since the last few years,I have been reserving Saturday and Sunday mostly for myself and my family.For at least I need much sleep lately and I don’t want to wake up much early when I don’t have to go for routine work.Furthermore,I  love to spend time staying home,reading,cleaning for example,and/or doing lovely things with my kids,especially on Saturday my daughter goes playing Hockey and very often the team will be on match so I prefer to go sitting watching the match at hockey field. And on Sunday I would rather spend peaceful time doing any things that will make me happy as well.

Tully and I have been friends for a long time.And as our friendship grows,I count her one of my family.I am truely content and jouful after I heard that she would come to visit me.That’s a blessing.And I certainly open my arms to welcome her right away and as always.

I took Tully and her sister to see Maasmechelen when her last visit in May(2013) 

So I just told her I didn’t have any particular plan. Only if she would come on Saturday,she might have to go watch hockey match with me.But yet she said she would come on Sunday.That’s much better,I therefore planned a lovely and pleasant day for both of us.

 

So on Sunday, after I got her first sms at about 8.30 a.m to inform me that she would be in Heerlen already at 9.53, I stood up and made myself ready to go pick her up at the railway station Heerlen. Eventhough it’s mentioned on internet and that we have been informed there would be no train to and from Heerlen this weekend, instead passengers will be provided with a bus,in cooperation with NS (Nederlandse Spoorwegen) to transport them from and to Heerlen to and from Hoensbroek as temporary terminal this weekend to get on and off train there (relating to work in progress of railways to Heerlen), the expected arrival time was right on time and so was Tully in Heerlen.

 

I picked up Tully to my place first. After lunch and acclimatising, I took her to Castle Terworm for afternoon tea.We chitchated, caught up with each other and made some few pictures in the garden of the castle before leaving the place for diner in a Chinese restaurant in Aachen with another two friends of mine.

I Love Castle,so when friends come,I always bring them to visit a castle. 

Everyday is a good day, so is today.Besides,Tully has made two new friends as well.We all were delighted and had such a good time.Her visit today was for me “a litlle present” and that will maintain our friendship.

I brought her back to the railway station at about 6 p.m to make sure that she will be home in Hoofddorp not too late.The traveling time is approximately two and a half hour from Heerlen to Hoofddorp,but there may be some delay as it has happened very often with Dutch railways from the past till todays.So better to take this fact into account and be prepared.

A warm hug of leave-taking was not only the warmth of amity but also cordiality to strenghten our camradeship.She was going home with elation and cheerful smile and so was I.

I Showed them once the very Beautiful Castle Hoensbroek